Still "Spirited" at almost two years old

I have been told over and over that Charlie is "spirited."  Is this what "spirited" looks like?

He was in a bad mood already but this particular spirited moment was because I wouldn't let him throw the dirt in the dust pan back onto the floor.

Charlie is nearing two years old and his mood swings are getting sharper.  I have started to re-read "The Happiest Toddler on the Block" to try and understand how to deal with him.  He is challenging to say the least but what makes it even harder is that his personality does not seem to be anything like my own.  I think this personality of his will be great when he's older (and it's fantastic when he's in a good mood) but right now it is really tough to deal with.

On a side note, I think I mentioned this before, the first time I tried to purchase "The Happiest Toddler on the Block" Charlie threw a tantrum in a long line at the book store so I had to put the book down and walk out.  Ironic?

Maybe he's just growing or maybe I need to feed him better or get him to sleep more.  Who knows, this toddler is quite an enigma.  A cute enigma though!